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Nine things that happen at every Nepali wedding

  1. The card says eleven. Nothing whatsoever happens until two.
  2. Somebody you have never met photographs you, and it becomes a family heirloom.
  3. There is a queue for the stage. Nobody can establish where it begins.
  4. An uncle asks what you do, is delighted by the answer, and asks again twenty minutes later because he would like to hear it a second time.
  5. The food is genuinely excellent and you eat it standing up, holding a plate, a glass and a phone with two hands.
  6. Someone’s small child is asleep across four stacked chairs, and will not be moved.
  7. The music is loud enough that every conversation becomes the same four sentences, shouted.
  8. A relative asks when your turn is. You are eleven years old.
  9. It ends. Three hours later, it ends again.